“Do not think that I came to bring peace on the earth; I did not come to bring peace, but a sword. For I came to set a man against his father, and a daughter against her mother, and a daughter-in-law against her mother-in-law; and a man’s enemies will be the members of his household. He who loves father or mother more than Me is not worthy of Me; and he who loves son or daughter more than Me is not worthy of Me. And he who does not take his cross and follow after Me is not worthy of Me. He who has found his life will lose it, and he who has lost his life for My sake will find it.” (Matthew 10:34-39, nasb)
My wife has a Chinese friend who married an Iranian man named Omar. Years ago, when Omar first came from Iran to the United States, he lived in New York City. He was a Muslim who hated Americans, but came to make money and go back to Iran rich. Wanting to be a successful business man, he purchased a self-help book entitled, “How to Win Friends and Influence People.” Even though the book was a secular book, the author has several verses from the Bible in the book.
As Omar read these verses, he was startled because they rang true to him. There was something different about these verses than the other words in the book. Later, he bought another book on “How to be a Successful Salesman” by Zig Zigler, who is a Christian. This book included quite a few verses.
As Omar was reading through these verses, a desire came over him to read the whole Bible. So, he went to a bookstore in New York City and quietly, so no one could hear, he asked the clerk if they had a Bible. The store said they didn’t have a Bible, but they had a New Testament, which was part of the Bible. Omar purchased this New Testament and went to his apartment and began to read God’s Word.
The first book in the New Testament is Matthew. Omar was a Muslim who hated Jews, and was reading a book that was primarily written by Matthew to explain the Messiah to Jews.
As Omar read of the genealogy of the Lord Jesus, and on through the beatitudes and this wonderful teaching from the Lord Jesus, God began to draw his heart to the Savior. As he read the verses in Matthew 10 of the members of your own household being your enemies, he fell to his knees and confessed Christ as Savior.
Later when someone asked him why these verses, of all verses, would be the very verses that would bring him to faith in Christ, he said, “When I read them, I knew that Jesus must be God because only God would require such from His disciples.”